Are you in a bad place at the moment, feeling miserable and asking yourself “Am I really going crazy?” Consider relationship counselling in Cairns to help you and your partner move forward.
Did your partner lie to you about being somewhere and now you want to know the exact movements of your partner when they are not with you?
Is your partner telling you that you are crazy for being suspicious?
Discussing your personal concerns about your partner, with your friend over coffee is not the answer for you when you are feeling this low.
Get The Right Advice With Relationship Counselling Cairns
If you have reached this point in time now, where you are not sure if your partner is telling you the truth and you feel an urgent need to spy on them just to find out if they are being honest with you, then you need to be seeking professional help from a well trained, qualified counsellor.
You are most likely far from being “crazy”, however it is in your best interests to speak with a counsellor with whom you can trust to help you in this very distressing and difficult time.
Trust is a major factor in all relationships and once broken, it is hard to regain.
If your partner has broken your trust, then counselling will help you both, and the sooner the better.
It is not a matter of saying, “OK now I will trust my partner”, trust is something that you earn and it needs to be understood by those who have broken the trust of their partners.
When both partners are trying to deal with broken trust issues there will be times when suspicions may arise, and then often this can lead to arguments when it is apparent that someone is not believing what their partner says.
This situation is not uncommon, and with the right help from your counsellor you will be able to get your relationship back on track.
Renew Your Relationship One Step At A Time
Our relationships are important to us all, and we need to understand that all of us will see the same thing from a different perspective.
What may appear to one person as grey, can be interpreted as blue to another.
Both people would be correct of course, so the trick would be to understand that the blue and the grey are both legitimate descriptions of what was seen by both parties, and with this in mind we may be more understanding and enjoy a lot less conflict.
Here in Cairns, psychologist Crispian Jones provides relationship counselling and can be of great value to help you talk things through.
Crispian Jones from Seachange Psychology has had many years assisting couples of all persuasions in Cairns and around Australia to work through relationship issues and reopen the lines of communication and affection.
Contact Cris at Seachange Psychology today on phone 07 4041 4147.